Raising Capable Kids

Thoughts on resilience, responsibility, confidence, and growing up.

When to Step In—and When to Step Back: Helping Kids Learn on the Mat

A youth martial arts student practicing independently while an instructor offers guidance. Watch a child trying to learn a new movement. The instructor demonstrates a simple turn. The child attempts it, gets their feet tangled, loses their balance, and stops. They look toward the instructor. Perhaps they look toward a parent watching from the side. […]

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The Pause Between Feeling and Doing: One of the Most Important Skills a Child Can Practice

A child takes a toy. Another child immediately grabs it back. Someone says something insulting. The response comes before the thinking. A student gets frustrated with an assignment and quits. A sibling pushes a button that they have pushed a thousand times before, and exactly the expected explosion follows. Adults do versions of these things

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